Infield Analysis: Baltic Lover
Listen to the full break-down analysis of the interaction I had with Baltic Lover. At just under the 10 minute mark, she dropped a logistical bomb shell, and I had to solve this, making the set just over 10 minutes long… In most cases, an effective interaction can be between 3 to 10 minutes. 5-7 minutes is a good sweet spot (generally speaking, if the woman needs to go somewhere or is waiting for a friend, it may be a good idea to go close to 3 minutes).
If she’s got no plans, and is bored, as in this case, you can go up to around 10 minutes. It’s a particularly smart play in the Nordics, where comfort is a big deal in the courtship ritual. Unlike say London, the smaller capital cities of the Nordic countries are quite chill. Generally speaking, people are not in as much of a rush, and you can capitalize on this. I also chose to share a longer set to give plenty of examples of things to say. There’s simply a lot substance in audio format to dig one’s teeth into.
I explain key plays and concepts in adequate detail. Slightly more advanced concepts like fractionation are part of the interaction dynamic. I don’t explain fractionation fully in the analysis. It may be covered in future analyses. I could go into detail about positive facial expressions, tone of voice, etcetera too, but that’s for another day.
Note that I speak calmly and don’t overdo the enthusiasm. The woman should be reacting more to you, than the other way around. It’s important when a woman is better looking than you. She needs to perceive you as someone she should qualify herself to. I’m completely relaxed. She can sense this, hence her positive first impression. I am chill, not throwing material at her in the hopes of impressing her. Quite the opposite. My frame is I want to see if she meets my requirements.
I’ve coined the term front-loading: doing the heavy lifting during the face-to-face interaction. Because of my front-loading in this set, subsequent texting was reduced to a minimum and was 100% about meetup logistics, and nothing else:
Infield: Baltic Lover (original)
This set hit all of the notes of a good flirtatious interaction. This regular gym-goer quickly became excited. The logistics: she was going to leave town the next day. My frame of spontaneity lead to drinks later in the evening, on the same day that I met her...
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