It’s best to have a child’s mind when approaching women. You’re exploring, and just because you can’t grasp a pencil in your hand properly and draw a perfect picture yet, shouldn’t prevent you from enjoying the process and craft of drawing whatever you can at the time.

Young children are fantastic learners because they do not have a negative filter telling them that they are crap. They just draw, and improve over time without ‘pain’ while actually taking action on improving through their motor response. Children improve faster without this filter of negative self-consciousness.

Words are loaded with meaning in the mind. Instead of seeing learning flirting skills as ‘painful,’ see it as learning through playful exploration. You wouldn’t tell a young child that they will have to suffer through pain to get skilful. Don’t tell yourself this either. Let your enthusiasm propel you forward, like a child would.