I'm grateful I had to develop my charisma and flirting skills. A. i can punch above my weight. I am capable of attracting and dating a woman who's SMV (sexual market value), in terms of looks, is higher than my own. B. I'm actually grateful for, and cherish the moments with cute women as opposed to a male 10 who may take it for granted. It is analogous to making your own money as opposed to inheriting it all and being spoiled. It is probably more rewarding (I've never inherited money).
C. I like seeing which girls i have chemistry with. It's exciting, and I don't see it as rejection if I don't click with someone. I filter for women I'll get along with. This is a major reason to qualify women instead of just accepting any female with a pretty face. Once you look past looks, you realise that you probably wouldn't stand spending two weeks with a woman you got but hurt over because she 'rejected' you. D. You develop character. Women are so harmless and cute it becomes entirely ridiculous to be scared of them. E. I know that any higher SMV woman I date likes me for me. Because otherwise they'd date a better looking, and, or more successful guy. What better compliment is there than that, really?
These are all inner strengths you develop. I think the male 10 is more susceptible to having a meltdown if any woman 'rejects' him or something happens that he's never had to deal with. Cold approach is like walking into a casino and getting unlimited chips for free and you get to WIN BIG. All you have to do is actually learn the principles of how the game works and play – learn how to flirt and be charismatic. Fair deal.
